Was having a contentious conversation with a colleague about ten years my senior. She made the familiar claim that people are more polarized, less able to reasonably disagree, than when she was a youth/younger adult. I maintained that people have always been mostly assholes.
(Actually, the contention was around whether Google was a harmful influence because it tailors results around your earlier searches.[1] The civility thing was a bit of evidence for her larger position. Anyway.)
Of course, neither of us had any actual research backing up our positions and were, in the moment, entirely reliant on personal anecdote. Since her anecdata were from a time right around when I was hitting puberty, I was at a loss for rejoinders.
But…geez! McCarthyism? Little Rock schoolhouse? The John Birch Society? Cities in flame, assassinations, Gore Vidal v/ William Buckley? It seems the 1950s and ’60s were none too civil, and that can hardly be blamed on Google.
Maybe the mid-’80s through the mid-’90s, which I think would be her frame of reference, were a golden age of civility. Except the early ’90s saw a public embracing Rush Limbaugh and Howard Stern, and I remember how heated the political discussions I witnessed around then were. So the golden age was 1985ish-1990? Does anybody know enough about that period to talk about the state of discourse around then? I know the audiences on Donahue could get pretty het up, but I don’t know how representative that was.
Actually, I get the impression that my colleague comes, as near as I can tell, from a solidly middle-class background, and now she mostly witnesses conversations among people raised in subcultures in which tribalism has traditionally been expressed more vigorously. Since One Doesn’t Talk About Class, though, that wasn’t an avenue for exploration.
Hmmmm. Having written that, I’m getting dim memories of Paul Fussell’s Class. Although published in 1992, the book definitely had an ’80s flavor, and one of Fussell’s themes was that people in the upper-middlish classess–two steps above blue collar, but still below truly wealthy–tend to equivocate, to be solicitous, and to be constantly on guard against giving offense.
Fussell held that these characteristics were an expression of the tense nervousness that defines these strata, the constant fear of slipping down, of losing cash and cachet. After about a decade of strong economic growth encouraging the notion that their positions were unassailable, I guess it’s plausible that this persistent, low-level background fear would fade away, taking the desire-to-please with it.
Please note that I’m batting way out of my league here.
[1] I didn’t even want to start in on how true that is.